Me : I am saturated. I need another life other than office.
Friend : Cari pasangan!
It's kinda annoying when you get that kind of response. Not that I am offended, I admit that I am in a need of having significant other and having one might be able to light up certain corner of someone's life.
But that's what I was talking about when I texted my friend. That response somehow devalues happiness. As if, you are happy or not is decided by the existence of other people.
So, when my friend texted me the same thing some other time, my response was ..
"Mungkin mau cari side job ? you need more activities."
It is sad somehow when some people overlook their ability in creating their own happiness.
